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Assisting and empowering hard working refugees from southern Cameroons

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Mr. Nifang Nde Frederick is one of the Southern Cameroons refugees and leader undergoing hardships and Challenges as surviving is a major call for concern: They have to go very hard manual work to have at least a meal in a day, sometimes roasted corn is the meal they can afford :


We need to assist and empower our refugees who of no fault of their own find themselves into this mess : Our refugees in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and other countries are experiencing the same hardship as one of former refugee coordinators Mr. Nde Nifang Frederick who has to go clear a large portion of farm to afford a meal and maybe by the end of the corn 🌽 is offered for refreshment :

We can assist these refugees to own their own farms and produce the food they consume and maybe sell some to buy drugs, pay rents and afford other basic needs: Nifang as an example underwent a serious surgery after a fatal accident that made him handicapped yet he still undergoes such hard labor to survive:

It is our wish that many will come to their aid and see how we can empower and assist them better their lives: Many of such cases and even worse abound in Taraba state and some states not yet accessible.
Shey Tatah (SM)

How do women above 40 behave ?

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MEN SHOULD PREPARE THEMSELVES TO HANDLE WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40

When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.

They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.
Most especially when she had given birth to Children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :
– Is sex food?
– Query some of your instructions
– Even the way you behave.

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.

If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
– Dry cleaning
– Preparing food to eat
Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far …
Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.

What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.

On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married..
It might help to learn these early especially with the added Corona stress.
Elder Dr. M. Job Mainye Ph.D , Kisii, Kenya